Surrogacy, the theme of Let Her Go, Dawn Barker’s new novel, often makes the headlines in Australia. The theme also occurs in Sally Hepworth’s book, The Good Sister (2020). Here’s a link to my review of The Good Sister.

cover Let her go

A few years ago, a story broke with the shocking revelation that disabled baby boy had been left in Thailand with his surrogate mother. The commissioning couple entered into a commercial arrangement with the Thai woman. They brought the baby’s twin sister with them when they returned to Western Australia. They left the boy with his mother. Later, the police revealed the man as a paedophile.

Let Her Go, Dawn Barker’s second novel, presents as a fast-paced read about altruistic, rather than commercial, surrogacy. Before 2009, when the Surrogacy Act 2008 became law, even altruistic surrogacy was illegal in Western Australia.

Psychiatrist and author Dawn Barker also explored a large family-related theme in her first book, Fractured. In that, her first novel she delved into the traumatic impact on a family of post-natal depression.

Let her go, the story

In Let her go, half-sisters Zoe and Nadia and their husbands, Lachlan and Eddie, enter into a surrogacy arrangement because of Zoe’s inability to carry her own child. Little do any of them realise the emotional upheaval they will confront as a result of their meticulously laid plans. No one could predict the problems that  their daughter, Louise, will face.

For the reader, also, outcomes remain unpredictable. The carefully controlled plot in this psychological thriller moves members of the family from one crisis to the next. The story reveals the impact on each of the characters of their initial decision to enter into a surrogacy arrangement.

Dawn Barker raises many questions.. She leaves her reader hanging, anxious to discover how each dilemma will unravel and what will be the final outcome in this gripping family drama.

Ranging over almost twenty years, the novel is written in a series of forward and back flashes. This structure allows the mystery at the heart of the story to unfold and deepen. It also enhances the development of the characters. The author painstakingly reveals the impact of the surrogacy decision on each of them.

At different times, a reader might make the judgement that one or other behaves poorly. But, because of the skill of the writing, we are left with the feeling that there are no goodies or baddies in this story.

Following the initial decision, everyone simply responds to subsequent events in the only way they feel able. These thoroughly believable, flawed characters possesses saving graces. The reader empathises with each of them.

Dialogue and setting

Dawn Barker writes amazing  dialogue. Her characters’ speech helps to create them in all their human frailty and strength. Much of the dialogue in Let Her Go made me squirm, laugh and cry. I recognised myself and people I know in their often heated conversations.

Set in and around Perth and Fremantle, the scenes seem both universal and quintessentially Western Australian. Indeed, Dawn Barker uses the settings almost as an additional character. They frequently reflect the inner state of a character. For example, when Zoe retreats alone with the baby to Rottnest Island, the description of the terrain echoes her desolation

‘She trudged along the sandy paths, avoiding quokka droppings and swooping gulls, heading away from the beach towards the interior of the island.’

Let Her Go is a thoroughly enjoyable novel, especially recommended for anyone with an interest in complex family relationships or surrogacy. With its author-written, extensive discussion notes it is a great choice for reading groups and book clubs.

Dawn Barker, Let Her Go. (Hachette: Sydney, 2014).


This review is part of  my commitment to the Australian Women Writers Challenge, 2014

6 replies on “‘Let Her Go’, by Dawn Barker – review (surrogacy story)”

  1. Thanks for the review. A timely book. hopefully I’ll read it if I can access a copy. Rosiex

    1. It is not only timely, but a really good read, Rosie. You can borrow my copy when Jenny finishes it. I know you’ll enjoy it, especially because of your long term interest in all things fertility, maternity, and your involvement with the West Australian Reproductive Technology Council.

  2. Excellent and interesting review Maureen will read the book on your recommendation. Jenny

    1. I’d love to hear what you think of it, Jenny, especially from the perspective of your current position at KEMH and also your work on surrogacy legislation with the Reproductive Technology Council and the Health Department.

  3. sounds interesting – I especially liked your recommendations re dialogue – something I am very interested in fine-tuning.

    1. Hi, Elizabeth. It is a really fast-paced read, and one of the things that makes that happen is the way the characters talk to each other. Your script-writing would demand good dialogue, of course, but I think all good writing enriches all other writing. I guess that’s why writers read all the time. I keep trying hard to get dialogue right, too, because I know mine can be a bit wooden, and my writing too formal.

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