The rose pruners at work in their front garden delight me. They also arouse my curiousity. I watch from where I’m sitting in the party park on the other side of Mere View Way, where it meets Jasmine Avenue. Once I would not have thought to sit like this in the park by myself, but…… Continue reading Rose pruners make me curious
Weeds and other things in the wrong places
Weeds have no place to grow on my balcony. They don’t dare show their heads in the two pots bearing minature lime trees. The garden container given to me by my son, with three Swiss Chards ringed by lettuces, is taboo. And so is the pot of cactii. Ross Gay writes about bind weeds in…… Continue reading Weeds and other things in the wrong places
Birds at dusk in the ‘party park’
You come across the lake just beyond the avenue of oaks in the park near my home. My family calls this place the ‘party park’, although its official name is Subiaco Common. The party park is replete with memories of summer evenings when we lingered over shared picnic meals. We chatted as we watched the…… Continue reading Birds at dusk in the ‘party park’
Shoes on the suburban train
I’m on my way into the city to buy a book and a pair of shoes, sitting on the train from the Subiaco station to Perth. It’s a short trip, a few stations on the suburban railway system known in Western Australia as Metronet. The station marks the end of my village-suburb where it’s likely,…… Continue reading Shoes on the suburban train
Nigel supervises my desk with love
What you don’t know until you live with a pet rock on your desk is that they can become a constant companion and make you smile whenever you catch a glimpse of them. I’m not sure why I imagine all pet rocks are male . I guess because there’s no room on rocks for skirts…… Continue reading Nigel supervises my desk with love
The Season – a winter with Helen Garner
Today I’m admiring a new book, The Season, by Helen Garner. This is a beautifully-written non-fiction story about a grandmother and her relationship with her fifteen year old grandson through one junior Australian Football League season. At first, it takes some application to see how a book about this topic could be so rich in…… Continue reading The Season – a winter with Helen Garner
How to survive falling over
Falling over would never have struck me as a topic for a blog post. I’ve fallen a few times, but always pretend that it never happened. First let me say that falling is a verb. It is something we do. To fall is not a noun like so many health professionals would like us to…… Continue reading How to survive falling over
Frailty and age – can we overcome it?
Frailty, or weakness in health or body, is often linked with old age, as if they define each other. I wonder if it can be overcome by a change of mindset? Older people are diagnosed as being frail if they have a reduced grip strength, slower walking speed which can be self-reported or measured, and…… Continue reading Frailty and age – can we overcome it?
Remembering my beloved son, Timothy
We are mourning the death of my youngest child, Timothy Mark O’Callaghan. Tim (51) died at the home of a friend on 28 December, 2024. His death was sudden, unexpected and still to be explained. I do not need to tell you of our heartbreak. Instead, I’ll share again a poignant memory of Tim. We…… Continue reading Remembering my beloved son, Timothy
Delights – how to capture fleeting moments
Experiencing delights has not been among my priorities recently because I haven’t been well. Thank goodness, life changes regularly. Among my new plans, I’ve enrolled in the next Writing in the Dark twelve-week intensive course entitled ‘For the joy and sorrow’. It starts on 8 January, 2025. How could I resist when Jeannine Ouelette, the…… Continue reading Delights – how to capture fleeting moments